What is squirting? And how do you squirt during sex?
Stimulating the g-spot also stimulates the Skene’s gland, and it eventually drains into the urethra. Yup, this is the gland responsible for squirting or ejaculation. Unlike the prostate gland, which has its own set of prostate massagers, the Skene’s gland cannot be stimulated directly and thus must be stimulated through the g-spot. The size and anatomy of the Skene’s gland can vary with each individual, which also explains why some women can easily squirt while others find it difficult.
Slowly over a minute or two you want to ramp that up, you just want to ramp the speed up. Now look, there’s different motions that you can do and you don’t want to go in there and start pumping right away. If you go in there and start pumping right way like a mad man then you’re not doing it right. You want to build it up slowly, so you can finger her and play around with her and do all that stuff, but when you’re really ready to make squirt then this is what you do. You’re going to put these two together like this and this is what you’re going to put inside of her. This right here is the upper wall of her vagina so if you would turn it around this kind where the clit would be.
Men find it hard to understand how women become aroused because it’s so different from men. Keep in mind that your partner may complain of an urge to urinate. This is absolutely normal, and you should assure her that she need not worry. All of this preparation takes place for the purpose of turning off her logical mind so she can ‘inhabit her body’.
Some people can squirt or ejaculate before or after an orgasm. Squirting can also happen at the same time as an orgasm. Some people also have multiple spurts of squirting spread over a few minutes. A recent study has shown that there is a difference between squirting, female ejaculation, and incontinence during sex. However, the term squirting is used to describe all three in everyday language.
That just goes to show that even if women’s bodies are a bit more nuanced how to make a woman squirt, we’re more than capable of bringing home an orgasm under the right circumstances. Oral contraceptives, anti-anxiety medications, and drugs to treat hypertension can make orgasms less intense and inhibit the ability to orgasm, notes Dweck. Dr. Jolene Brighten NMD, FABNE, is an internationally acclaimed hormone expert, nutrition scientist, and thought leader in women’s medicine. She is board certified in naturopathic endocrinology and trained in clinical sexology. Dr. Brighten is an international speaker, clinical educator, and medical advisor within the fem-tech community.
I’d always put import on giving my partners orgasms. Being able to make them squirt, I imagined, would be almost as rewarding for me as it would be for them. THE FIRST TIME I saw squirting, I didn’t really know what I was looking at. The squirter was named Cytherea, an adult actress who had become synonymous with an ability to ejaculate large volumes of fluid – that was supposedly not pee – during sex acts. So rare was this talent that a 2004 interview with Adult Video News described her as having a “one-of-a-kind sexual gift.” But then, a funny thing happened.
They’ve told you how there’s no one else on this earth like you. You may be a little nervous, wondering what you should do, but don’t worry. Here’s everything you need to do if you want to know how to enjoy… If you want to make her squirt, the less friction, the better.
Because I’ve seen women who were barely capable of even enjoying sex turned into nymphomaniacs who loved sex and squirting because of it. The feeling is similar, but women who are lucky enough to be experienced at squirting can easily tell the difference. A kegel is an exercise for your vagina that helps you have more powerful and intense orgasms. This is why, at School Of Squirt, we emphasis that squirting should be integrated in as part of our healthy sex life. I remember the very first time I squirted with my (now) husband and it was such an amazing experience, and only cemented my love of squirting forever.
So as soon as she has her orgasm, if you missed it, tell her to start pushing, and she will. To do that is what am going to tell you is kind of the set up to this whole thing. So it’s not so much about fingering, its more about the set up. You get the set up right, then everything else will fall into place. You will get the fingering right, it’s not that difficult. Beyond personal pride, there’s also relationship bliss to consider.
